Well first let’s listen to the thoughts and hear the words that come out of our mouths. I was surprised when I really took my thoughts and words captive. I had to plant so many new seeds!
I had to pull all that self doubt, things people said to me, and even what I said about myself. The negative that I kept hearing had to be replaced! I changed the thoughts and words to positive. Yes, I slipped sometimes...as a matter of fact I still do but retract it back and say thank you really quickly! It really does change how you view things. It changes perspective. Allows us to view the issue/problem in a different angle. To conquer it! I encourage you to sit down and write a negative thought and replace that thought with positive. Say the positive out load and claim the positive!
Our heart is connected to our thoughts and words. God wants our heart to be connect to Him! So we hear what we are in Christ and what He says about us as a Daughter of the Highest King!
give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 1 Thessalonians 5:18